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Thursday, March 19, 2009

Note to a 'So Called Friend'

I don't care if you read this and I don't even want you to respond, this is just to make ME feel better.

I hope you treat your 'besties' much better than the treatment you have given me. I have 'thought' we were friends for the last 7 years. I stood by you during several hard times. I was right there when you suffered a big loss and took time off of work to be with you. I even went so far as to collect money from friends to get you a memorial for that loss. I listened to you talk it out during your rough times with your husband and understood when you decided to take him back. I knew you needed a tenant and against my better judgement to mix business with pleasure I trusted you to be a friend no matter what. Boy was I wrong. You are a liar and a backstabber and the things you said were not true and the person did not deserve that. You should have just been truthful but you only care about yourself and no one else’s feelings so why would you?

And your guilt is showing through by your actions because I did absolutely NOTHING to deserve the treatment I have gotten from you. Have a good life.

13 comments :

Jen Caputo said...

Yikes. Big hugs to you Pam. Remind me not to cross you ;)

Karen said...

Wow. I'm sorry to hear about this. I know how hard it can be when something like this happens. *HUGS*

Cindy said...

Zoinks!

Karen said...

Pam, I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you can get over it quickly and move on to happier things. {{{hugs}}}

Lynette van Barrelo said...

I think I came stalking at the wrong time! ={

I hope you are OK and get past this quickly!

candice said...

I'm sorry you are hurting Pam. Sounds like a rough situation. Hope things get better for you!

Rachael said...

Pam, I would caution you to remember there are 2 sides to every story, even when you dont always want to hear the other side.

Tracy said...

{{HUGS}} That's all.

Sherri said...

I am thinking this was a private matter and should have been kept between the respective parties. It saddens me that you decided to handle it so publicly.

Pam said...

Sherri I am sorry you feel that way but since you only know one side of that story why would you think any other way? A blog is a journal and if everyone else can talk about what is going on in their life why can’t I? This is my blog and the very few readers it has don’t even know who I’m talking about. If they don’t like it they don’t have to read it.

Jodene said...

Well with friends like that who needs enemies! Good riddance I say Pam.
And since it started on the other blog, don't you let anyone make you feel bad for sharing your feelings about it here Pam! Like you said this is 'your place' and you are free to say what you like. If anyone doesn't like it they can just log out.

Rach said...

I agree whole heartedly with Jodene. This is YOUR space on the web .. YOU can say whatever you damn well please. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this, Pam. *hugs to you*

1RadChick said...

It is totally your space and you are right in feeling you can post whatever you want.

I've recently found out that my inlaws and my MOM regularly read my blog... I"m thinking of starting another private blog. LOL I'd still keep that public one but hello I want to be able to be honest... :(